Infidelity or Love 🤔🤔🤔

Hello followers, vistors and readers today WakaAbout Nigeria walked all the way to Nasarawa State and Eggon land where a housewife admits sleeping with stepson to have child for husband sparks family feud/drama🤔🤔

Esther Jemkwe, a 40-year-old housewife from Nasarawa State, shocked her community after confessing to an affair with her 23-year-old stepson to conceive a child for her husband.😱 Esther revealed that her husband, Audu, became impotent soon after their 2022 marriage, leading to pressure from relatives, especially her mother-in-law, over her childlessness.🫣🫣🫣

Feeling desperate and emotionally strained, Esther said she turned to her husband’s son, Theophilus, for support. Their secret relationship throughout 2025 resulted in a pregnancy,🫄 confirming Esther’s ability to have children but sparking conflict at home.😎😎

When her husband denied the pregnancy and accused her of infidelity, Esther was asked to leave the marital home. Despite the turmoil, she insists her actions were driven by love and the wish to save her marriage.😜😜😜

Hmmmmmmmh! What do you think?

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Only poor/broke men chase women 👗

Growing up with this words " Poor men/broke men chase women, but rich and influential men attract gorgeous women " from my late Pops kept me focused and not in a desperate move to be in a relationship due to norms and societal/peer pressure👍👍👍
My Boss lady said something to me ( when I drove her somewhere ) recently coming as a question that needed to be answered  " I thought you would be eager to go home/close so that you can go and see your girlfriend ", I answered am not in any relationship and don't have a girlfriend 😎😎😎. My 2 last jobs were totally inhouse 24/7 work except for church going, I couldn't afford to date as I had responsibilities to meet. In truth my present condition does not permit any relationship so I just avoid any commitments. Years back when I started life after school in Porthacourt and Uyo I landed in Lagos I avoided any relationship, so until I was ready I only had flings and Lagos was a place to go astray once in a while.😏😏😏
So putting my Pops idea/ideology in focus I worked, saved and upgraded my self infact I decided to be single and still searching 😎😎🤗
I remember my Pops usual visit when I was living in a 3 bedroom apartment ( Baba Aluasa house )in Oregun off Opebi links road very close to where Super Eagles striker Victor Oshimeh grew up. He said to me during one of his visit " don't you get bothered living alone in this house ", I replied " Pops nope I enjoy my privacy.
I would go to the market on weekends get stuffs cook stew and 2 different soups store them in my fridge and warm them daily with my microwave when I want to eat. He persisted until after my 30th birthday, it was a friend who now broke it down to me that what he meant is that I should get married. He always visited once a year towards the time of his church convention in Lagos. So with his persistency I decided to be available 😜 for the sisters in church who were trying to outsmart themselves in hooking an eligible bachelor 😁😁😁.
First I went to Mandilas in Eko market inside Broad street and changed my wardrobe. Bought some nice perfumes ( Dune, Ismiyaki and Therey Mugler ) went regu to a Salon on Allen Avenue, Ikeja for perdicure and manicure ( those days the was this gorgeous Yoruba woman who was so good in it that there was always a queue of young men waiting 😜😜😜 ). and got committed in church to attract sisters who where also eyeing the brothers 😆😆.
My house being close to my church HQ was a plus and every Sunday after the last service I always had a feast with the brethren and it increase my persee in church as a responsible eligible bachelor. Anyways I got noticed and before long a gorgeous sister in church choir called my name after one prayer meeting one faithful Monday and when I asked who she was and that she called my name perfectly I can still remember her exact words " every body knows the village tree, but the village tree doesn't know everyone " hmmmmh that simile lead to " I do " we met in March got married in February, I don't know how to delay the obvious 😜😜😜. Well I never chased any sister in church but got married to a fabulous gorgeous one in church infact she just finished her youth services and had just gotten retained when we met. I have 3 children today, a handsome intelligent dude and 2 cutest gorgeous babes from that encounter.🙏🙏🙏. That reminds me please follow their channel on WhatsApp  https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaaolhmICVfiwEYpH61p  for my son who has almost 600 followers and  https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb6BCZWGk1Fob698Rj3k   for my first daughter. My youngest daughter is still in secondary school and the law of the family is until you finished Olevels no android phones or laptop 💪💪💪 and no amount of emotional blackmail can change the rules period🤬🤬🤬
Men please stop falling for what is offered and patiently wait for the woman who knows what she wants and goes after what she so desire tenaciously. Marry someone that has a high IQ rate so that you shall have very smart children. Don't do garbage in garbage out. Both of my children are studying ' Engineering and Surgery respectively 🙏🙏🙏
Stop spending small change to chase women, follow my Pops strategy " become successful, influential and the best shall locate you. When you are financially stable, looking nice, smelling nice and bouyant the right woman shall present herself. Trust me no woman, educated, working class/doing business or from a good home wants to suffer. As a man be stable and a stalwart of good living a focus oriented woman shall present herself 🤓. Please run away from NFAs ( No future Ambition ) or " one village queen " . Don't be a mediocre or a push over. As for me right now am not eligible for any serious relationship am laying foundation for the best of me, the very best in my age bracket. ( My ex-wife is 55 and looks 35 trust me " she fine " 😜 ). One I wake to and see thank you lurv for marrying me💕💕💕😁😁😁

Staying safe in 2026

Recently and to be precise, last month in December, Anthony Joshua the British based Nigerian fighter was involved in a gastly motor accident that lead to the death of 2 of his friends and colleagues when the car in which they were traveling in collided with a stationary truck left on the side of the road.😭😭

They were four individuals in the SUV when this accident occur and sadly the two individuals who did not make it where the once sitted on the right side of the SUV ( the persenger side and behind it ). ☹️ About forty years ago I and my friends took noticed of something similar that happened close to TransAmadi Industrial layout in Porthacourt, Rivers State Southern part of Nigeria. This awesome couple recently married, cute and adorable would always drive past where we had our restaurant ( Kejiros Place ) and we would always admire them as either the hubby or the wify drove past us. 💖 Then one very sad day a fast reckless driver crossed their car and on that day it was the hubby that was driving and it was wify that got killed instantly.😭

It's been years now and that hubby is a Pastor today remarried with children who are even parents. Life goes on definitely.🙏

Since that painful incident even before I ever bought a car and started driving I observed something remarkable that gave me an insight to driving and reflexes on instant response to reckless drivers and impact on occurances in driving.🤔 Bearing in mind that God alone gives life and has place Angels to watch over us day and night we on our part should apply wisdom to our day to day routine.💪

When traveling and you are not the one driving please take a very critical position on the sitting arrangements in the vehicle you find yourself. The safest sitting position is behind the driver and it is a vintage position.💯 In any sudden crash or collision with an upcoming vehicle, the driver instinct is swerve to his left when driving a left hand driving vehicle or to the right in a right hand driving vehicle.😱 Ensure you always use your sit belts wherever you are sitted and finally never back traffic when walking or riding a bike. Selah!😎😎😎

God made Nigeria a beautiful place but politicians and public service officials have made it a den of thieves ☹️☹️☹️

I recently made a post on a statement made by our past President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan made " stop calling politicians and public office holders fraudulent/corrupt, there are just common thieves so call them THIEVES ". Some days back a Court grants N500m bail to Malami, wife, son. Totalling N1.5 Billions😡.

Justice Emeka Nwite of the Federal High Court in Abuja has admitted former Attorney General of the Federation (AGF) and Minister of Justice, Abubakar Malami, SAN, to bail in the sum of N500m pending his trial in the money laundering offences brought against him by the federal government.☹️

Malami is to produce two sureties who will stand for him in the like sum. Justice Emeka Nwite in a ruling on bail application by Malami and two others on Wednesday ordered that the two sureties must have landed properties in Maitama, Asokoro or Gwarimpa.

The documents of the properties are to be verified by the Deputy Chief Registrar of the Court while the sureties are also to depose to affidavit of means.🤔

Malami is to deposit his travelling documents with the Court and must not travel out of the country without the express permission of the court.

Besides, the former AGF and his sureties were also ordered to deposit their two recent passport photograph with me court.

Meanwhile, Malami has been ordered to be remanded in Kuje prison pending his perfection of the bail conditions.👍

At the time of this report, business associates, friends and sympathizers of the former Minister of Justice have been moving round to secure bail for Malami.😁😁

Justice Emeka Nwite fixed February 17 for commencement of trial of the corruption charges.

The same bail conditions were extended to Malami’s son Abdulaziz Malami, and an employee of Rahamaniyya Properties Limited, Hajia Asabe Bashir.😏

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) filed a 16-count money laundering charge against Malami, his son and his wife.😎😎😎

The Extra Ordinary Women

🤔🤔Meet The Woman Who Broke World Record For Sleeping With 919 Men In One Day that is just 12 hours not counting the night😌

One of the most weird records I have come across recently is the world record for sleeping with the most people in a single day. This intriguing record is held by US adult entertainer ( Pornstar ) Lisa Sparks, spelled as Lisa Sparxxx. She is said to have slept with 919 men in just 12 hours. Lisa achieved this unusual feat on October 16, 2004, in Warsaw, Poland during the event called Eroticon 2004😱

She took on this challenge as part of the Third Annual World Gangbang Championship, where she competed against other women. Lisa won the competition by allegedly engaging in sexual activities with 919 individuals within a span of 12 hours. To maintain efficiency, each man was given only 45 seconds with the entertainer. 😉😉One of her competitors was the former record holder, who had slept with 759 men in a day.🤓

On that day, Lisa Sparks emerged as the champion, surpassing her closest competitor by sleeping with 21 more individuals. Prior to Sparks’ controversial achievement, Polish adult entertainer Marianna Rokita held the record with 759 encounters in a single day.💪 Before her, another adult entertainer named Klaudia Figura held the record with 646 men in a day.

Interestingly, despite working in the adult entertainment industry  ( Pornstar/X-rated movies ) for several years and starring in over 188 films, Lisa Sparks has been married since 1995. Many may view her marriage as a stroke of luck, but it hasn’t hindered her professional endeavors.😎😎😎

 

Women in equality search or indecent exposure 🤔🤔🤔

When I see post on marriage and the search for " marrying wife material ". I often times wonder, " But how and who is a " wife material ". After going through some personal research and observation I have come to the conclusion that  " wife material " is a figment of a man's imagination and desire.😳

The " Women libration movement " in the 70s then " Feminist " in the 80s and the " Gender equality " in the 90s and today are still trying to envoled to a formidable force  but trust me it is just a myth.😎

I totally agree with giving " the Woman " recognition but bear in mind that it is, Biblical and  Spiritual. Settle this in your Spirit, Soul Mind and Body.🤗 Read the Book of beginnings " Genesis " with focus on the need for the " Woman - Eve. Adam was never lonely as most people tend to believe and align with, it is God who decided to create the woman for the man and not the other way round😁. And don't be twisted it was not for " being lonely " but being alone when God was not with Adam. No matter the groups or associations, woman and man can never have equality.💪 Selah

ps; feel free to argure with your ancestors.😂

There are men who desire a gentle woman, whilst there are those who desire a tough woman so it is all about taste and desires.

When I got married I never wanted the type of women I dated for a wife, so I went to church not a club because I desired a mother, teacher and motivator for my children and not a judge and tough nut😉

In the late 90s when I met my wife, women were reserve and modest, but today it extremely different. Take for example when did women walk around with their tops lifted at the back exposing their bumps or cleavages 🤔.

This bothered me for sometime and since my children were with their mother under her tutoring I wanted to be very sure my girls are not left alone or subject to peer pressure.

Anytime am attracted to a lady and I notice that she is in the habit of raising her top at the back to showcase her bumps am immediately turned off and disgusted 😡.

So I asked my eldest daughter who is 18,  " Hello Bebe does your mother allow you and Tootsie raise your tops/blouse exposing your bumps, I asked? "

And she replied back " Mummy will kill us if we try it and it is gross to act in such manner, we know who we are. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Ghost and not for exposure ". I was so grateful for the response from my daughter. When I was dating and subsequ

ent marriage to her mother she never had any indecent exposure as a matter of fact, she had this attitude of using safety pins to pin her blouses, tops to ensure her cleavages were totally covered. Today it is so disgusting to see married women/mothers exposing their bumps and allowing their daughters do same 😢

Stop calling Public service officials/Politicians " corrupt or fraudulent ", there are just common thieves - Past President Good luck Ebele Jonathan

The chairman of Dangote group during a press briefing on Sunday, December 14, alleged that Ahmed Farouk paid $5 million to Swiss secondary schools for his children.

Dangote said Ahmed paid the said amount for four of his children, covering a period of six years.

Although the Africa richest man did not mention the name of the Swiss schools, he said the NMDPRA’s CEO was living above his means. He challenged the Federal Government to investigate his claim.

He argued that such expenditure raised serious questions about potential conflicts of interest and the integrity of regulatory oversight in the downstream petroleum sector.

" Our diversity is our Strength "

Governor Uba Sani has reiterated his commitment to building a state where diversity is a source of strength and every citizen can pursue a life of dignity and opportunity.😎

The governor, who made this known as the Chief Host at the 50th Anniversary of the Nigeria Aid Group of Islam, Jama’atu Nasril Islam (JNI) on Saturday, noted that his vision was anchored on unity, peace, and sustainable development.☹️

Cheating in Marriage

Dear Married women, 

As you cheat on hubby, here are  few facts you need to know. Cheating is very sweet. It gives you that extra attention you need. You get to finally have a man who understand you and treat you right.🤓

He calls you every day asking how you are doing. He takes you out to eat in nice places. The man gives you good sex ( Not love making  ) every time you meet, having it in different places like the shower,  lodges, bush and car- how romantic. He is just so perfect because you never even argue.😎

But then you forget to ask the following question: if you were to leave your hubby, can he marry you. The answer is NO. 

He knows you are a wayward woman (a hue) who can do the same to him if he were to marry you. He knows how you cheat your husband to be with him. He knows all your tricks. 😁

He sees how you respond to his calls when you are doing it, those moments you fake it to like you are in the office when you are deep in his arms. Though he makes you feel like you are better than his wife, he can never leave her for you, maybe someone who has weaknesses he doesn't know.😌

Meanwhile that your man home is the only one who has given you a name that has given you respect. He is with you when you have a bereavement. He sleeps next to you every night, when you are having your period and sick or dressed like a mad woman. He does all the donkey work for you, putting up with your mood swings.😢

You say he is bad in bed yet that your secret lover uses herbs when you are with him. 

If you want to see how your extra relationship will fall apart, try to divorce your man so the other man can take full responsibility? You will see how your relationship will disappear like smoke in air.😂

Respect your marriage. Your life may never be the same once that man you take for granted leaves you.☹️

Children who do house chores are very intelligent and teachable ✌️

Children who do house chores are noted for higher IQ than children who shy away from doing house chores.🤔

The bible declares " train up a child the way to grow and when that child is old ( comes to maturity ) that child shall not depart from it ( the training )💪. Amazingly most people ( believers ) stop there in the reading of the scriptures, but the next chapter is a greater revelation " the borrower is subject to the lender " Wow, this incapsulcate the norms of children doing house chores without complaining💝. Do a study and you shall discover that stubborn and disobedient children are those were never trained at home or listen to their parents or guardians.😢

It is more like garbage in, garbage out. In academics children who do house chores are more calmer, focused and intentional in their studies and one thing that is in their favour is they listen to their teachers and lecturers and are very intelligent.👍

Any parent or guardian who succumbs to children who make excuses to avoid doing house chores is indirectly leading those children/wards to a life of stubborness and thereby leading the

m to wrath.

Any where you meet a teenager who cannot be controlled, taught or lacking wisdom just be aware it is from the upbringing. Selah!😎

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PASTOR 💝💞💝

Seven ( 7 ) is the number of completion. Seven biblically means " taking it to fullness. Today marks a day in history when a Father, Mentor, Leader, Coach and Teacher was born into this world. If you ever get to meet him personally ( one on one ) your outlook about life changes astronomically and there is an inner transformation. This is wishing " the ONE " a man who taught me the " WORD " and made me come to know who the Word is........ A Person and that it works. Happy glorious birthday Sir.🎉🎉🎉🎊🎊🎊I and my children love you without measure. May the good Lord continually shine His light upon you and give you His rest all your days. Amen and Amen 🙏🙏🙏

Banditry not a Nigerian thing☹️

A Jos, Plateau State-based pastor, Papa David Kwa, reportedly revealed that soldiers contacted to evacuate the corpses of church members killed by Fulani militias had to seek permission from the same group before entering the area to remove the bodies.

According to a video he shared on social media on Monday, Kwa said the militants had attacked the Dong community in Jos North Local Government Area, killing several people, including a woman and her child who had gone there on a condolence visit.

He was said to have explained that since members of the community could not enter the enclave to retrieve the corpses for burial, they had asked the military for assistance. Kwa reportedly added that when the soldiers arrived, they had to call the militants to seek permission to enter the area and were granted only ten minutes to carry out the evacuation.

The pastor was quoted as expressing surprise that the soldiers needed to contact the militants before moving in to recover the bodies of those who had been killed.

He also said, “In my presence, they called the Fulani people, and they responded that they gave the soldiers ten minutes to go in, and take the corpses.

"They gave the soldiers ten minutes only.

"We were at the burial ground waiting for the corpses to bury them.

“Even when they got to the place, the soldiers were telling our people to be fast as they had only ten minutes to evacuate the bodies."

Further speaking, he said that when the corpses were finally brought, the soldiers left immediately, leaving them unsure whether they had been abandoned to be killed by the attackers or not.

He added that, by the grace of God, they were able to conduct the burial and then return to their various homes.

The pains and effects of growth in any economy

Who has noticed this? or is it my imagination? Armed robberies is comatose in recent times especially in this season in the past🤔. This can only mean the obvious, banditry and kidnapping is the obvious reason☹️.

This is one proof that the originators of kidnapping and banditry have led the new violent and desperate way of being successful 🤬.

A Senior Police told me years back, that just like then when supposed wealthy and influential men were sponsors of major robberies so is the same with banditry and kidnapping.

Just like in the days of armed robberies when Rtd Major General President Ibrahim Badamosi Babaginda was our Leader, He summon the head of the  Nigerian Police and give him marching orders to arrest the most wanted armed robber " Anini " and the IG summoned his tactical team to immediately bring in Anini to face persecution and behold he was caught and during the trial amongst his collaborators was a serving senior police officer ASP Iyamu whom Anini fingered. The all died by shooting at the stake ( firing squad )😭. That singular action brought to the decline of armed robberies 💪

It is time President Bola Ahmed Tinubu take such drastic step by giving such " Presidential " orders to not the service chiefs but choosing " 1 commander " from the military unit ( the Navy, Air force,  Armed forces, Civil defence, Immigration to create a central command office/center and take totally control of all the security outfit and reports directly to Mr President who deals directly with him 😎😎😎

The importance of a 72 hours fast

 It sounds unbelievable, but science backs it up. A new study shows that fasting for just 72 hours (three full days) can completely regenerate the human immune system, even in older adults.😃

Researchers found that during prolonged fasting, the body flips a powerful internal switch. It begins to break down and recycle old, damaged immune cells through a process called autophagy.🤔 As glucose stores deplete and the body enters deep ketosis, stem cells kick into action, producing entirely new white blood cells, the frontline defenders of your immune system.💪

Think of it as a full factory reset for your body’s defense system. The tired, weak immune cells are flushed out. And in their place, fresh, efficient ones are born.👊

This kind of immune reboot has shown particular promise for those with weakened immunity, such as cancer patients undergoing chemotherapy or individuals dealing with autoimmune disorders. It may also help reduce chronic inflammation, improve gut health, and enhance the body's ability to fight infection.✊

And here’s the best part, it’s completely natural. No pills, no surgeries, no supplements. Just water, rest, and time.

Of course, extended fasting isn’t for everyone. It should be done carefully, ideally under medical supervision, especially for those with existing health conditions. But this research confirms what ancient traditions and modern biohackers have long suspected: sometimes the best way to heal the body is to stop feeding it, briefly.🫵

A 72-hour fast doesn’t just test willpower. It rewires immunity.😁😁😁

16 HABITS A MAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE

1. Play with your wife. Gently grab her butt. Grab her waist. Touch/grab or rub her bum when she is cooking. Women love it when their husbands hold and touch them confidently in a way that makes them feel wanted. Kiss her when she least expects it.😍😍 

2. Always Admire Your Wife and Tell her she is beautiful. Women who hear their husbands tell them they’re beautiful become more attractive. Tell her she is the most beautiful and brilliant woman you have ever met. Women are easily moved by what they hear. They are like flowers that blossom when words of love water it.❤️ 

3.Tell her you love her, often. One of the most powerful words you will ever learn to use in your marriage is “I Love You”. Tell her "I love you" while she talks to you. She will end up smiling ☺️☺️☺️ 

4. Promote the skills, ideas, and gifts of your woman. Your woman's progress shouldn't be a threat to you. God didn't bring her into your life to kill her abilities but to promote them.👍

5. Do house chores together. Surprise her by doing something you think she would want done before she asks. Helping your wife with house chores does not take anything from your manhood. It shows that you are a loving and caring husband.💞

6. Occasionally, Plan a mini honeymoon when both of you can spend quality time together.💃😍 

7. Buy Your Wife A Gift AT Least Once In A MONTH. No gift is too small or too big for your darling wife. You can buy a beautiful bags for her, shoes, clothes,👜👙🧥 wristwatches, phones, etc. Don’t say she has many bags, she will never get tired of having more bags, she will never get tired of having more beautiful shoes or clothes, etc.❤️ 

8. Occasionally, prepare a breakfast and serve it to her in bed, especially on weekends.😍😍 

 9. Give your wife a serious shoulder, back, and neck massage in the bathroom, bedroom, and living room as often as possible. Do it carefully to create only pleasure.😜 Breast massage should be tender and carefully done as it can be painful to a woman. Handle the tummy carefully. You don’t need to be an expert to give your wife a good message. Ask your wife to lie on her body. Massage her body; spend time on the back, thigh, tummy, chest, face, buttocks, legs, etc.😍❤️ 

10. Occasionally, follow your wife to the beauty salon. Choose the kind of hair-do you want her to do. Tell her how beautiful she looks in the hair-do.😏

11. Call, email, or send a romantic text message to your wife when you're apart so she knows you are thinking of her. She might have just left the house a couple of minutes ago. Just text her right away and tell her how much you miss her. Your WIFE will smile most definitely and be wondering what you are up to.😆

12. When your wife comes back home from work, greet her with a hug and cheerful words. Don't have a sad face. Let her know that you are happy to see her. This means a lot.💪

 13. Open the door of the car for her and let her sit as your first lady. Treat your wife like your beauty queen always. Let her sit beside you. Tell her she is your first lady. Treat her as if God put a sign over her that reads, “Make me feel special.”🤗

14. Give her a surprise birthday. Celebrate her birthday in an unusual way.  Play a surprise birthday music for her.  Buy her what she considers precious gifts. Make her day memorable and she will forever treat you like a king.🤴

15. Occasionally, Order for soups and food from a good restaurant to pamper your wife. Order different kinds of food at a restaurant. Bring home foods she loves to eat but won’t buy for herself.💖

16. Stand up for your wife and protect her from criticisms, insults, or physical abuse that may come from the people close to you. Never allow a third party to come between you and your wife.💗

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name 🙏🙏🙏

Train up a child the way to Go

Today, I saw a youth corper who apparently was going around looking for a corporate organization to take her in in-compliance with her one year service.😁

What caught my attention was that she was backing/carrying a baby who would have been around the ages of 8 months to one year😎

I remember back in the late 80s to early 90s there were a lot of babies and toddlers bearing names like " College, Student, University etc:, this names were given to children to emphasis or to denote the period/times their mother's gave birth to them.

As a young teenager on the way to a higher institution, the message given to us was " don't forget  where you are coming from ", " keep away from extracurricular activities ". " Face your studies and don't engage with girls, finally if you must do it please use a rubber😉

Today it is appalling to see teenagers dating and having multiple partners☹️.

Immorality is on the increase without any limitations. One begins to wonder what kind of training the parents, guardians and families are giving to their wards. The Holy book declares "  train up a child the way to go and when that child is old he/she shall not depart from it ( the training ). So the glaring immorality today is basically in the background/home of the child. Selah!🤔🤔🤔

WHEN POWER FADES AND TIME SPEAKS…🗣️

I sat with these pictures for a long time. Not just looking — but feeling,

deep in my spirit, a quiet voice whispered:

“Life is truly turn by turn.”

This is Senator Suemo Chia.

A man who once stood at the top. One of the most respected voices of his generation. In his prime, he was powerful. Brilliant. Feared. Admired. He walked the halls of power with grace. He served with honor. He was among the 1% of the 1%.💪

But look again…

Today, time has turned the page.

The crowds are gone.

The noise has faded.

The body is weaker.

The room is quieter.

Yet one thing still speaks — louder than the silence…

His legacy.📙

A legacy so profound, it moved a sitting Governor to come sit at his feet — not for politics, not for photo ops — but to honor a man whose life meant something.

And that… that is where the real message lies.💞

Because life is a wheel.

You won’t always be at the top.

Power will fade.

Money may dry up.

The calls will reduce.

The attention will shift.

But what will never fade… is how you made people feel.💖

The lives you touched.

The people you lifted.

The kindness you showed.

The integrity you lived out — even when nobody was watching.

So, my dear friend reading this…💝

If you are in your prime now — please hear this with love:💖

 • Don’t let power blind you. It’s only a loan.

 • Don’t treat people like they don’t matter. You may need them tomorrow.

 • Don’t build only for applause — build for eternity.

 • Don’t chase fame — chase impact.

 • Don’t stockpile riches and forget to invest in people. Only people will remember you.🤔

Because titles fade. Wealth fades. Strength fades.

But legacy? Legacy lives on.

One day, it will be your turn to sit in that quiet room.

And the question will be: Who did you serve? Who did you love? Who will remember you — and why?🤔

May your old age not be filled with loneliness — but with honor.

May people not just remember your name — but carry your impact in their hearts.

So live well.

Love deeply.🖖

Give freely.

And always, always remember:

Nothing lasts forever — except the way you made others feel.👌

10 ways to be a great Christain Dad

A Christian father is unique and must remember that his children are in fact children of God. I have below a write up from Babywise magazine on 10 ways to be a great Dad

1. RESPECT YOUR CHILDREN MOTHER, One of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother, to keep family values and your marriage strong and vital it is important to respect and support the mother of your children with open show of affection at all times.


2. SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN, How a father spends his time tells his children what’s important to him. If you always seem too busy for your children, they will feel neglected no matter what you say.


3. EARN THE RIGHT TO BE HEARD, All too often the only time a father speaks to his children is when they have done something wrong. Begin talking with your kids when they are very young so that difficult subjects will be easier to handle as they get older, take time and listen to their ideas and problems with enthusiasm


4. DISCIPLINE WITH LOVE, All children need guidance and discipline, not as punishment, but to set reasonable limits. Remind your children of the consequences of their actions and provide meaningful rewards for desirable behavior.


5. BE A ROLE MODEL, Fathers are role models to their kids, whether they realize it or not. A girl who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys and what to look for in a husband. Fathers can teach sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility and responsibility.


6. BE A TEACHER, Too many think teaching is something others do. But a father, who teaches his children about right and wrong and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good choices.


7. EAT TOGETHER AS A FAMILY, Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch or dinner) can be an important part of healthy family life. In addition to providing some structures in a busy day, it gives kids the chance to talk about what they are doing and want to do about it.


8. READ TO YOUR CHILDREN, Begin reading to your children when they are very young. When they are older, encourage them to read on their own, Instilling your children with a love for reading is one of the best ways to ensure they wuill have a lifetime of personal and career growth.


9. SHOW AFFECTION, Children need security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted and loved by their family. Parents, especially fathers need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children. Another to show affection is by hugging and kissing their mother in front of them. Showing affection every day is the best way to let your children know what love is and that you love them.


10. REALISE THAT A FATHERS JOB IS NEVER DONE, Even after children are grown and ready to leave home, they will still look to their fathers for wisdom and advice. Whether its continued schooling, a new job or a wedding, fathers continue to play an essential part in the lives of their children as they grow and perhaps, marry and build their own families

Is there Faith in the World?

As a young man growing up in my father’s house I was brought up by my father to believe that juju or witchcraft never worked or was effective in any way at all. As a grown man I now see that all my father was doing to us is to ensure that we never believed in any way that it was ever effective thereby putting inside of us the mindset that no matter the situation we would never go that way as in being dependant in juju or witchcraft.


During my years of ministry work as a Pastor I have seen and witness a lot of phenomenon or happenings concerning juju or witch craft, it is sad to note that Christian have a lot of faith in it and it is also surprising to note that desperate supposed Christian use it against other Christian and even against families, associates, colleagues and friends. I was told about a ministry where the leader at a convention of pastors and lay minister discovered that amongst them were those who had used juju to attract members

Jesus asked a question in Matthew ”When the Son of man cometh will he find faith in the world”.

I asked a senior Pastor a question does Juju works and he said to me that it works, but the word of God is greater and it diffuses the efficacy of juju.

Why is Juju so prominent in our society today, why do men and women use it and why have Christian resorted to it.

Evil will continue to prevail when good men do nothing.

Traditional Weddings(Phobia)

It’s appalling to see the way the issue of relationship between a boy and a girl or in recent time between a brother and a sister in church and the result of having long courtship due to the fear of going through the marriage ceremony. This fear is not due to a lack of understanding between both parties and for the record nobody ever experience true love until after you get married so this talk about being in love as the reason for getting married is just a joke or fallacy.

So I ask what happens to this love after a few weeks or even days after the ceremony when both parties begin the real process and there now discover that the have different taste and desire, love in marriages takes a while and it come true patience and perseverance.

When you see a couple married for over 35 years then you will realize that it must have come through great sacrifice from both parties and even more from the woman. Most divorces you hear about comes more from misunderstanding and in most cases the failure of the woman to submit but that is another days topic.

Today I am talking more on how society has failed the younger generation by imposing too much demand on the marriage ceremony than the marriage itself, quoting Pastor telling us about his own experience “the wedding party or reception is not the marriage; it’s the couple that is the marriage”

This demand on issues like where to have the reception, the food, the arrangement is not the integral part of getting married, its even more appalling in Nigeria today where so much is placed in the so called “TRADITIONAL WEDDING” So called traditional weddings run into millions of Naira, but if one is lucky you might get a bill of less than 500,000 naira. Most expensive weddings do not last long, its just a photo trick.

This has lead to so much pains and misgivings when it comes to the boy going to the girls place to get her hand in marriage in the so called introduction that is when the boy’s relations come to inform the girl’s family of their intention. This phobia has gone to the extent that the are a lot of saved Christians who are married the traditional way and yet to get married proper.

I know some people think that the traditional is more important but that’s where we miss it, who came first God or man, who handle the first marriage ceremony, God of course, where there any expensive occasion or any exchange of expensive gift. Its time we put things right, we are not of this world and its mode of operation.

Do you know how many young men and women have died in in the bid to travel far and wide for a so called traditional marriage?

In the civilized system of getting married all you require is to locate a priest or a pastor and all you need is your rings and the vows. The most important aspect of marriages is bringing it before the ONE that started it God our father.

As I write I can count at least 26 born again Christians who are not rightfully married in the eyes of God, but have either done the introduction or the traditional marriage and kids have arrived or are already on the way.

I say this to you do not take chances or let the system destroy you, do it right and do it the Gods way. If you can afford a ring and you are sure both of you are in agreement get to your Pastor and do it right, whoever want to be angry that he or she was not there to eat an drink at your expenses is free to get angry. The success of any marriage is based on the Faith of God so make Him your number one partner and live the dead to handle the dead things of this world