Growing up with this words " Poor men/broke men chase women, but rich and influential men attract gorgeous women " from my late Pops kept me focused and not in a desperate move to be in a relationship due to norms and societal/peer pressure👍👍👍
My Boss lady said something to me ( when I drove her somewhere ) recently coming as a question that needed to be answered " I thought you would be eager to go home/close so that you can go and see your girlfriend ", I answered am not in any relationship and don't have a girlfriend 😎😎😎. My 2 last jobs were totally inhouse 24/7 work except for church going, I couldn't afford to date as I had responsibilities to meet. In truth my present condition does not permit any relationship so I just avoid any commitments. Years back when I started life after school in Porthacourt and Uyo I landed in Lagos I avoided any relationship, so until I was ready I only had flings and Lagos was a place to go astray once in a while.😏😏😏
So putting my Pops idea/ideology in focus I worked, saved and upgraded my self infact I decided to be single and still searching 😎😎🤗
I remember my Pops usual visit when I was living in a 3 bedroom apartment ( Baba Aluasa house )in Oregun off Opebi links road very close to where Super Eagles striker Victor Oshimeh grew up. He said to me during one of his visit " don't you get bothered living alone in this house ", I replied " Pops nope I enjoy my privacy.
I would go to the market on weekends get stuffs cook stew and 2 different soups store them in my fridge and warm them daily with my microwave when I want to eat. He persisted until after my 30th birthday, it was a friend who now broke it down to me that what he meant is that I should get married. He always visited once a year towards the time of his church convention in Lagos. So with his persistency I decided to be available 😜 for the sisters in church who were trying to outsmart themselves in hooking an eligible bachelor 😁😁😁.
First I went to Mandilas in Eko market inside Broad street and changed my wardrobe. Bought some nice perfumes ( Dune, Ismiyaki and Therey Mugler ) went regu to a Salon on Allen Avenue, Ikeja for perdicure and manicure ( those days the was this gorgeous Yoruba woman who was so good in it that there was always a queue of young men waiting 😜😜😜 ). and got committed in church to attract sisters who where also eyeing the brothers 😆😆.
My house being close to my church HQ was a plus and every Sunday after the last service I always had a feast with the brethren and it increase my persee in church as a responsible eligible bachelor. Anyways I got noticed and before long a gorgeous sister in church choir called my name after one prayer meeting one faithful Monday and when I asked who she was and that she called my name perfectly I can still remember her exact words " every body knows the village tree, but the village tree doesn't know everyone " hmmmmh that simile lead to " I do " we met in March got married in February, I don't know how to delay the obvious 😜😜😜. Well I never chased any sister in church but got married to a fabulous gorgeous one in church infact she just finished her youth services and had just gotten retained when we met. I have 3 children today, a handsome intelligent dude and 2 cutest gorgeous babes from that encounter.🙏🙏🙏. That reminds me please follow their channel on WhatsApp https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaaolhmICVfiwEYpH61p for my son who has almost 600 followers and https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb6BCZWGk1Fob698Rj3k for my first daughter. My youngest daughter is still in secondary school and the law of the family is until you finished Olevels no android phones or laptop 💪💪💪 and no amount of emotional blackmail can change the rules period🤬🤬🤬
Men please stop falling for what is offered and patiently wait for the woman who knows what she wants and goes after what she so desire tenaciously. Marry someone that has a high IQ rate so that you shall have very smart children. Don't do garbage in garbage out. Both of my children are studying ' Engineering and Surgery respectively 🙏🙏🙏
Stop spending small change to chase women, follow my Pops strategy " become successful, influential and the best shall locate you. When you are financially stable, looking nice, smelling nice and bouyant the right woman shall present herself. Trust me no woman, educated, working class/doing business or from a good home wants to suffer. As a man be stable and a stalwart of good living a focus oriented woman shall present herself 🤓. Please run away from NFAs ( No future Ambition ) or " one village queen " . Don't be a mediocre or a push over. As for me right now am not eligible for any serious relationship am laying foundation for the best of me, the very best in my age bracket. ( My ex-wife is 55 and looks 35 trust me " she fine " 😜 ). One I wake to and see thank you lurv for marrying me💕💕💕😁😁😁
