When I see post on marriage and the search for " marrying wife material ". I often times wonder, " But how and who is a " wife material ". After going through some personal research and observation I have come to the conclusion that " wife material " is a figment of a man's imagination and desire.😳
The " Women libration movement " in the 70s then " Feminist " in the 80s and the " Gender equality " in the 90s and today are still trying to envoled to a formidable force but trust me it is just a myth.😎
I totally agree with giving " the Woman " recognition but bear in mind that it is, Biblical and Spiritual. Settle this in your Spirit, Soul Mind and Body.🤗 Read the Book of beginnings " Genesis " with focus on the need for the " Woman - Eve. Adam was never lonely as most people tend to believe and align with, it is God who decided to create the woman for the man and not the other way round😁. And don't be twisted it was not for " being lonely " but being alone when God was not with Adam. No matter the groups or associations, woman and man can never have equality.💪 Selah
ps; feel free to argure with your ancestors.😂
There are men who desire a gentle woman, whilst there are those who desire a tough woman so it is all about taste and desires.
When I got married I never wanted the type of women I dated for a wife, so I went to church not a club because I desired a mother, teacher and motivator for my children and not a judge and tough nut😉
In the late 90s when I met my wife, women were reserve and modest, but today it extremely different. Take for example when did women walk around with their tops lifted at the back exposing their bumps or cleavages 🤔.
This bothered me for sometime and since my children were with their mother under her tutoring I wanted to be very sure my girls are not left alone or subject to peer pressure.
Anytime am attracted to a lady and I notice that she is in the habit of raising her top at the back to showcase her bumps am immediately turned off and disgusted 😡.
So I asked my eldest daughter who is 18, " Hello Bebe does your mother allow you and Tootsie raise your tops/blouse exposing your bumps, I asked? "
And she replied back " Mummy will kill us if we try it and it is gross to act in such manner, we know who we are. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Ghost and not for exposure ". I was so grateful for the response from my daughter. When I was dating and subsequ
ent marriage to her mother she never had any indecent exposure as a matter of fact, she had this attitude of using safety pins to pin her blouses, tops to ensure her cleavages were totally covered. Today it is so disgusting to see married women/mothers exposing their bumps and allowing their daughters do same 😢
