Infidelity or Love 🤔🤔🤔

Hello followers, vistors and readers today WakaAbout Nigeria walked all the way to Nasarawa State and Eggon land where a housewife admits sleeping with stepson to have child for husband sparks family feud/drama🤔🤔

Esther Jemkwe, a 40-year-old housewife from Nasarawa State, shocked her community after confessing to an affair with her 23-year-old stepson to conceive a child for her husband.😱 Esther revealed that her husband, Audu, became impotent soon after their 2022 marriage, leading to pressure from relatives, especially her mother-in-law, over her childlessness.🫣🫣🫣

Feeling desperate and emotionally strained, Esther said she turned to her husband’s son, Theophilus, for support. Their secret relationship throughout 2025 resulted in a pregnancy,🫄 confirming Esther’s ability to have children but sparking conflict at home.😎😎

When her husband denied the pregnancy and accused her of infidelity, Esther was asked to leave the marital home. Despite the turmoil, she insists her actions were driven by love and the wish to save her marriage.😜😜😜

Hmmmmmmmh! What do you think?

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Only poor/broke men chase women 👗

Growing up with this words " Poor men/broke men chase women, but rich and influential men attract gorgeous women " from my late Pops kept me focused and not in a desperate move to be in a relationship due to norms and societal/peer pressure👍👍👍
My Boss lady said something to me ( when I drove her somewhere ) recently coming as a question that needed to be answered  " I thought you would be eager to go home/close so that you can go and see your girlfriend ", I answered am not in any relationship and don't have a girlfriend 😎😎😎. My 2 last jobs were totally inhouse 24/7 work except for church going, I couldn't afford to date as I had responsibilities to meet. In truth my present condition does not permit any relationship so I just avoid any commitments. Years back when I started life after school in Porthacourt and Uyo I landed in Lagos I avoided any relationship, so until I was ready I only had flings and Lagos was a place to go astray once in a while.😏😏😏
So putting my Pops idea/ideology in focus I worked, saved and upgraded my self infact I decided to be single and still searching 😎😎🤗
I remember my Pops usual visit when I was living in a 3 bedroom apartment ( Baba Aluasa house )in Oregun off Opebi links road very close to where Super Eagles striker Victor Oshimeh grew up. He said to me during one of his visit " don't you get bothered living alone in this house ", I replied " Pops nope I enjoy my privacy.
I would go to the market on weekends get stuffs cook stew and 2 different soups store them in my fridge and warm them daily with my microwave when I want to eat. He persisted until after my 30th birthday, it was a friend who now broke it down to me that what he meant is that I should get married. He always visited once a year towards the time of his church convention in Lagos. So with his persistency I decided to be available 😜 for the sisters in church who were trying to outsmart themselves in hooking an eligible bachelor 😁😁😁.
First I went to Mandilas in Eko market inside Broad street and changed my wardrobe. Bought some nice perfumes ( Dune, Ismiyaki and Therey Mugler ) went regu to a Salon on Allen Avenue, Ikeja for perdicure and manicure ( those days the was this gorgeous Yoruba woman who was so good in it that there was always a queue of young men waiting 😜😜😜 ). and got committed in church to attract sisters who where also eyeing the brothers 😆😆.
My house being close to my church HQ was a plus and every Sunday after the last service I always had a feast with the brethren and it increase my persee in church as a responsible eligible bachelor. Anyways I got noticed and before long a gorgeous sister in church choir called my name after one prayer meeting one faithful Monday and when I asked who she was and that she called my name perfectly I can still remember her exact words " every body knows the village tree, but the village tree doesn't know everyone " hmmmmh that simile lead to " I do " we met in March got married in February, I don't know how to delay the obvious 😜😜😜. Well I never chased any sister in church but got married to a fabulous gorgeous one in church infact she just finished her youth services and had just gotten retained when we met. I have 3 children today, a handsome intelligent dude and 2 cutest gorgeous babes from that encounter.🙏🙏🙏. That reminds me please follow their channel on WhatsApp  https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029VaaolhmICVfiwEYpH61p  for my son who has almost 600 followers and  https://whatsapp.com/channel/0029Vb6BCZWGk1Fob698Rj3k   for my first daughter. My youngest daughter is still in secondary school and the law of the family is until you finished Olevels no android phones or laptop 💪💪💪 and no amount of emotional blackmail can change the rules period🤬🤬🤬
Men please stop falling for what is offered and patiently wait for the woman who knows what she wants and goes after what she so desire tenaciously. Marry someone that has a high IQ rate so that you shall have very smart children. Don't do garbage in garbage out. Both of my children are studying ' Engineering and Surgery respectively 🙏🙏🙏
Stop spending small change to chase women, follow my Pops strategy " become successful, influential and the best shall locate you. When you are financially stable, looking nice, smelling nice and bouyant the right woman shall present herself. Trust me no woman, educated, working class/doing business or from a good home wants to suffer. As a man be stable and a stalwart of good living a focus oriented woman shall present herself 🤓. Please run away from NFAs ( No future Ambition ) or " one village queen " . Don't be a mediocre or a push over. As for me right now am not eligible for any serious relationship am laying foundation for the best of me, the very best in my age bracket. ( My ex-wife is 55 and looks 35 trust me " she fine " 😜 ). One I wake to and see thank you lurv for marrying me💕💕💕😁😁😁

Staying safe in 2026

Recently and to be precise, last month in December, Anthony Joshua the British based Nigerian fighter was involved in a gastly motor accident that lead to the death of 2 of his friends and colleagues when the car in which they were traveling in collided with a stationary truck left on the side of the road.😭😭

They were four individuals in the SUV when this accident occur and sadly the two individuals who did not make it where the once sitted on the right side of the SUV ( the persenger side and behind it ). ☹️ About forty years ago I and my friends took noticed of something similar that happened close to TransAmadi Industrial layout in Porthacourt, Rivers State Southern part of Nigeria. This awesome couple recently married, cute and adorable would always drive past where we had our restaurant ( Kejiros Place ) and we would always admire them as either the hubby or the wify drove past us. 💖 Then one very sad day a fast reckless driver crossed their car and on that day it was the hubby that was driving and it was wify that got killed instantly.😭

It's been years now and that hubby is a Pastor today remarried with children who are even parents. Life goes on definitely.🙏

Since that painful incident even before I ever bought a car and started driving I observed something remarkable that gave me an insight to driving and reflexes on instant response to reckless drivers and impact on occurances in driving.🤔 Bearing in mind that God alone gives life and has place Angels to watch over us day and night we on our part should apply wisdom to our day to day routine.💪

When traveling and you are not the one driving please take a very critical position on the sitting arrangements in the vehicle you find yourself. The safest sitting position is behind the driver and it is a vintage position.💯 In any sudden crash or collision with an upcoming vehicle, the driver instinct is swerve to his left when driving a left hand driving vehicle or to the right in a right hand driving vehicle.😱 Ensure you always use your sit belts wherever you are sitted and finally never back traffic when walking or riding a bike. Selah!😎😎😎

God made Nigeria a beautiful place but politicians and public service officials have made it a den of thieves ☹️☹️☹️

I recently made a post on a statement made by our past President Goodluck Ebele Jonathan made " stop calling politicians and public office holders fraudulent/corrupt, there are just common thieves so call them THIEVES ". Some days back a Court grants N500m bail to Malami, wife, son. Totalling N1.5 Billions😡.

Justice Emeka Nwite of the Federal High Court in Abuja has admitted former Attorney General of the Federation (AGF) and Minister of Justice, Abubakar Malami, SAN, to bail in the sum of N500m pending his trial in the money laundering offences brought against him by the federal government.☹️

Malami is to produce two sureties who will stand for him in the like sum. Justice Emeka Nwite in a ruling on bail application by Malami and two others on Wednesday ordered that the two sureties must have landed properties in Maitama, Asokoro or Gwarimpa.

The documents of the properties are to be verified by the Deputy Chief Registrar of the Court while the sureties are also to depose to affidavit of means.🤔

Malami is to deposit his travelling documents with the Court and must not travel out of the country without the express permission of the court.

Besides, the former AGF and his sureties were also ordered to deposit their two recent passport photograph with me court.

Meanwhile, Malami has been ordered to be remanded in Kuje prison pending his perfection of the bail conditions.👍

At the time of this report, business associates, friends and sympathizers of the former Minister of Justice have been moving round to secure bail for Malami.😁😁

Justice Emeka Nwite fixed February 17 for commencement of trial of the corruption charges.

The same bail conditions were extended to Malami’s son Abdulaziz Malami, and an employee of Rahamaniyya Properties Limited, Hajia Asabe Bashir.😏

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) filed a 16-count money laundering charge against Malami, his son and his wife.😎😎😎

The Extra Ordinary Women

🤔🤔Meet The Woman Who Broke World Record For Sleeping With 919 Men In One Day that is just 12 hours not counting the night😌

One of the most weird records I have come across recently is the world record for sleeping with the most people in a single day. This intriguing record is held by US adult entertainer ( Pornstar ) Lisa Sparks, spelled as Lisa Sparxxx. She is said to have slept with 919 men in just 12 hours. Lisa achieved this unusual feat on October 16, 2004, in Warsaw, Poland during the event called Eroticon 2004😱

She took on this challenge as part of the Third Annual World Gangbang Championship, where she competed against other women. Lisa won the competition by allegedly engaging in sexual activities with 919 individuals within a span of 12 hours. To maintain efficiency, each man was given only 45 seconds with the entertainer. 😉😉One of her competitors was the former record holder, who had slept with 759 men in a day.🤓

On that day, Lisa Sparks emerged as the champion, surpassing her closest competitor by sleeping with 21 more individuals. Prior to Sparks’ controversial achievement, Polish adult entertainer Marianna Rokita held the record with 759 encounters in a single day.💪 Before her, another adult entertainer named Klaudia Figura held the record with 646 men in a day.

Interestingly, despite working in the adult entertainment industry  ( Pornstar/X-rated movies ) for several years and starring in over 188 films, Lisa Sparks has been married since 1995. Many may view her marriage as a stroke of luck, but it hasn’t hindered her professional endeavors.😎😎😎

 

Women in equality search or indecent exposure 🤔🤔🤔

When I see post on marriage and the search for " marrying wife material ". I often times wonder, " But how and who is a " wife material ". After going through some personal research and observation I have come to the conclusion that  " wife material " is a figment of a man's imagination and desire.😳

The " Women libration movement " in the 70s then " Feminist " in the 80s and the " Gender equality " in the 90s and today are still trying to envoled to a formidable force  but trust me it is just a myth.😎

I totally agree with giving " the Woman " recognition but bear in mind that it is, Biblical and  Spiritual. Settle this in your Spirit, Soul Mind and Body.🤗 Read the Book of beginnings " Genesis " with focus on the need for the " Woman - Eve. Adam was never lonely as most people tend to believe and align with, it is God who decided to create the woman for the man and not the other way round😁. And don't be twisted it was not for " being lonely " but being alone when God was not with Adam. No matter the groups or associations, woman and man can never have equality.💪 Selah

ps; feel free to argure with your ancestors.😂

There are men who desire a gentle woman, whilst there are those who desire a tough woman so it is all about taste and desires.

When I got married I never wanted the type of women I dated for a wife, so I went to church not a club because I desired a mother, teacher and motivator for my children and not a judge and tough nut😉

In the late 90s when I met my wife, women were reserve and modest, but today it extremely different. Take for example when did women walk around with their tops lifted at the back exposing their bumps or cleavages 🤔.

This bothered me for sometime and since my children were with their mother under her tutoring I wanted to be very sure my girls are not left alone or subject to peer pressure.

Anytime am attracted to a lady and I notice that she is in the habit of raising her top at the back to showcase her bumps am immediately turned off and disgusted 😡.

So I asked my eldest daughter who is 18,  " Hello Bebe does your mother allow you and Tootsie raise your tops/blouse exposing your bumps, I asked? "

And she replied back " Mummy will kill us if we try it and it is gross to act in such manner, we know who we are. Our bodies are the temple of the Holy Ghost and not for exposure ". I was so grateful for the response from my daughter. When I was dating and subsequ

ent marriage to her mother she never had any indecent exposure as a matter of fact, she had this attitude of using safety pins to pin her blouses, tops to ensure her cleavages were totally covered. Today it is so disgusting to see married women/mothers exposing their bumps and allowing their daughters do same 😢