Tuesday, November 11, 2025

16 HABITS A MAN SHOULD LEARN AND PRACTICE IN MARRIAGE

1. Play with your wife. Gently grab her butt. Grab her waist. Touch/grab or rub her bum when she is cooking. Women love it when their husbands hold and touch them confidently in a way that makes them feel wanted. Kiss her when she least expects it.😍😍 

2. Always Admire Your Wife and Tell her she is beautiful. Women who hear their husbands tell them they’re beautiful become more attractive. Tell her she is the most beautiful and brilliant woman you have ever met. Women are easily moved by what they hear. They are like flowers that blossom when words of love water it.❤️ 

3.Tell her you love her, often. One of the most powerful words you will ever learn to use in your marriage is “I Love You”. Tell her "I love you" while she talks to you. She will end up smiling ☺️☺️☺️ 

4. Promote the skills, ideas, and gifts of your woman. Your woman's progress shouldn't be a threat to you. God didn't bring her into your life to kill her abilities but to promote them.πŸ‘

5. Do house chores together. Surprise her by doing something you think she would want done before she asks. Helping your wife with house chores does not take anything from your manhood. It shows that you are a loving and caring husband.πŸ’ž

6. Occasionally, Plan a mini honeymoon when both of you can spend quality time together.πŸ’ƒπŸ˜ 

7. Buy Your Wife A Gift AT Least Once In A MONTH. No gift is too small or too big for your darling wife. You can buy a beautiful bags for her, shoes, clothes,πŸ‘œπŸ‘™πŸ§₯ wristwatches, phones, etc. Don’t say she has many bags, she will never get tired of having more bags, she will never get tired of having more beautiful shoes or clothes, etc.❤️ 

8. Occasionally, prepare a breakfast and serve it to her in bed, especially on weekends.😍😍 

 9. Give your wife a serious shoulder, back, and neck massage in the bathroom, bedroom, and living room as often as possible. Do it carefully to create only pleasure.😜 Breast massage should be tender and carefully done as it can be painful to a woman. Handle the tummy carefully. You don’t need to be an expert to give your wife a good message. Ask your wife to lie on her body. Massage her body; spend time on the back, thigh, tummy, chest, face, buttocks, legs, etc.😍❤️ 

10. Occasionally, follow your wife to the beauty salon. Choose the kind of hair-do you want her to do. Tell her how beautiful she looks in the hair-do.😏

11. Call, email, or send a romantic text message to your wife when you're apart so she knows you are thinking of her. She might have just left the house a couple of minutes ago. Just text her right away and tell her how much you miss her. Your WIFE will smile most definitely and be wondering what you are up to.πŸ˜†

12. When your wife comes back home from work, greet her with a hug and cheerful words. Don't have a sad face. Let her know that you are happy to see her. This means a lot.πŸ’ͺ

 13. Open the door of the car for her and let her sit as your first lady. Treat your wife like your beauty queen always. Let her sit beside you. Tell her she is your first lady. Treat her as if God put a sign over her that reads, “Make me feel special.”πŸ€—

14. Give her a surprise birthday. Celebrate her birthday in an unusual way.  Play a surprise birthday music for her.  Buy her what she considers precious gifts. Make her day memorable and she will forever treat you like a king.🀴

15. Occasionally, Order for soups and food from a good restaurant to pamper your wife. Order different kinds of food at a restaurant. Bring home foods she loves to eat but won’t buy for herself.πŸ’–

16. Stand up for your wife and protect her from criticisms, insults, or physical abuse that may come from the people close to you. Never allow a third party to come between you and your wife.πŸ’—

You will not fail in marriage in Jesus name πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™



Train up a child the way to Go

Today, I saw a youth corper who apparently was going around looking for a corporate organization to take her in in-compliance with her one year service.😁
What caught my attention was that she was backing/carrying a baby who would have been around the ages of 8 months to one year😎
I remember back in the late 80s to early 90s there were a lot of babies and toddlers bearing names like " College, Student, University etc:, this names were given to children to emphasis or to denote the period/times their mother's gave birth to them.
As a young teenager on the way to a higher institution, the message given to us was " don't forget  where you are coming from ", " keep away from extracurricular activities ". " Face your studies and don't engage with girls, finally if you must do it please use a rubberπŸ˜‰
Today it is appalling to see teenagers dating and having multiple partners☹️.
Immorality is on the increase without any limitations. One begins to wonder what kind of training the parents, guardians and families are giving to their wards. The Holy book declares "  train up a child the way to go and when that child is old he/she shall not depart from it ( the training ). So the glaring immorality today is basically in the background/home of the child. Selah!πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”