1. RESPECT YOUR CHILDREN MOTHER, One of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother, to keep family values and your marriage strong and vital it is important to respect and support the mother of your children with open show of affection at all times.
2. SPEND TIME WITH YOUR CHILDREN, How a father spends his time tells his children what’s important to him. If you always seem too busy for your children, they will feel neglected no matter what you say.
3. EARN THE RIGHT TO BE HEARD, All too often the only time a father speaks to his children is when they have done something wrong. Begin talking with your kids when they are very young so that difficult subjects will be easier to handle as they get older, take time and listen to their ideas and problems with enthusiasm
4. DISCIPLINE WITH LOVE, All children need guidance and discipline, not as punishment, but to set reasonable limits. Remind your children of the consequences of their actions and provide meaningful rewards for desirable behavior.
5. BE A ROLE MODEL, Fathers are role models to their kids, whether they realize it or not. A girl who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys and what to look for in a husband. Fathers can teach sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility and responsibility.
6. BE A TEACHER, Too many think teaching is something others do. But a father, who teaches his children about right and wrong and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good choices.
7. EAT TOGETHER AS A FAMILY, Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch or dinner) can be an important part of healthy family life. In addition to providing some structures in a busy day, it gives kids the chance to talk about what they are doing and want to do about it.
8. READ TO YOUR CHILDREN, Begin reading to your children when they are very young. When they are older, encourage them to read on their own, Instilling your children with a love for reading is one of the best ways to ensure they wuill have a lifetime of personal and career growth.
9. SHOW AFFECTION, Children need security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted and loved by their family. Parents, especially fathers need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children. Another to show affection is by hugging and kissing their mother in front of them. Showing affection every day is the best way to let your children know what love is and that you love them.
10. REALISE THAT A FATHERS JOB IS NEVER DONE, Even after children are grown and ready to leave home, they will still look to their fathers for wisdom and advice. Whether its continued schooling, a new job or a wedding, fathers continue to play an essential part in the lives of their children as they grow and perhaps, marry and build their own families
